You are pushing 50 now and now your 28 year old fiance of 10 months has left you high and dry, or should I say in the cold wet spot in the middle of the bed in a seedy motel. You probably are stuck paying the fees for the room. He stated: "She's a good woman, it's just one of those situations where in life people outgrow each other. I'm highly intelligent, very wise and one thing I hate is negativity and drama. I hate arguing and I value communication no matter what the problem so as in any relationship tension can build up and I finally had to walk away." Deja vu isn't it? First clue that someone is not highly intelligent or very wise when they are the ones saying it.
It makes you sound stupid because YOU cant judge yourself and by announcing your "findings" robs the people who do the judging of their opinion/vo
If he were truly "highly intelligent" and "wise" he wouldn't have released such a ridiculous statement.
What are you going to do? You are the new growing breed of black over 40 black women, damaged by drama, self imposed drama, have never healed emotionally, and will call on God when their life isn't working. What's the next step? Going lesbian now? These young men are telling you to fall back like hairline!
If you are claiming to be a cougar by any stretch of the imagination, then I am here to refute all of these erroneous claims. You and your wig collection can go sit down!